Behaviour and discipline
How can adults teach children to wait for a turn?
Direct answer
Start with short, supported turns in an activity the child understands. Make the sequence visible, explain what happens while waiting and increase the challenge gradually. Waiting is a developing skill, so expectations should fit the child's age and support needs.
What this means in practice
A child may not understand how long a turn lasts or whether their chance will come. A clear cue can make the activity more predictable. Avoid interpreting every difficulty with waiting as selfishness or treating a long queue as a character test.
Practical next steps
- Demonstrate the turn sequence.
- Use a visible cue.
- Notice successful waiting and asking.
Illustrative example
In a building activity, give each child a small part to add and explain who will go next, rather than asking them to wait indefinitely.
What to keep in mind
Adapt the waiting demand when language, sensory or attention needs make participation difficult.
Sources and further reading
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